That depends on the bride as well as the bridesmaids. Paying for a bridesmaid's dress is not an obligation of the bride. Paying for your own dress is the least you can do to help the couple on such a costly event as their wedding. There's nothing wrong with it. I think what was nice is that I would be able to wear the dress again to another occasion because it's my own dress.
Excited and Nervous on the Big Day.
I got up at 6:30 a.m. excited. Packed all my things. I had to be at Manila Grand Opera Hotel at 9 a.m. where the preparations started so it gave me plenty of time.
I usually feel shy and feel awkward in new situations so when I arrived at the hotel, my nerves were skyrocketing upon seeing a bunch of people. Some that I know, some that I’ve never met before, some that I’ve been connected with through a friend of a friend. Since I had not yet been a bridesmaid before, I felt that I was an outsider at that moment. I don't have a pretty good idea of what to do, where to go, or where to start. There were so many things running through my head at that time.
Did my Own Make Up
Around an hour later, it was time for us to have our hair and makeup done and since I wanted to look simple, with less makeup and more myself, instead of looking clownish, I decided to do my own makeup and hair even if I'm totally not confident with makeup application skills. Still, I wanted to be sure, so I asked someone to help me with my eye color and eyebrows and had someone to straighten the back of my hair. Well, the experience turned out to be a successful one. Some people told me how natural I looked, which was a big compliment to me.
Helped the Bride
After doing our makeup and getting dressed up, we bridesmaids were asked to assist and help the bride if need be. I spent a few minutes running errands for the bride. These included helping other members of the bride get ready and locating much-needed items such as a pen and a comb?
The maid of honor helped the bride with everything wedding related. Well, aside from being the bride's right hand, the maid of honor was the one who lead the pre-wedding event. I salute the maid of honor (Mela) for her energy and dedication but it made me never want a big wedding. Haha!
Stressed out but ended up loving the Pre-wedding photo session.
There was a photo shoot before heading to the event place. The picture-taking session took so long. It was fun yet stressful. The hotel room was a good place but it was too crowded. It was hard for the photographer to take pictures because people especially kids were just passing by. Good thing, the photographer and her team members had managed to capture the fun and natural photos despite the slight inconvenience. I really enjoyed the photoshoot I did with the bride and other bridesmaids. It was such a good icebreaker for our group.
Stunned by Surprise
Around 1 p.m. we made our way to the wedding place. I was stunned by surprise by the beautiful venue. It's a place for the ceremony and a place for the reception. The wedding flowers, beautiful lighting, light-toned chairs, and tables, and the white-lined wedding aisle added to the charm of the wedding venue. I was smiling like an idiot while looking at the place.